Some people are nomads: they live in vans and travel the world in search of themselves and their community. Others are monks: having found themselves and their community, they travel the world to spread their message.
I am a priest — a postmodern, atheist one. I put down roots in one place and build a community around me, creating physical and virtual spaces where people can come together, connect and belong.
Below are my three main parishes at the moment:
Feel free to join any or all of them.
BHAN – Be Here And Now
I am the Co-Founder and Creative Director of BHAN, a safe and inclusive community rooted in kindness, presence and rhythm.
The idea is simple: creating the conditions to truly let go and be here and now, surrounded by people you can trust and connect with.
Most BHAN events happen on a dancefloor, where around 100 people share a phone-free space built around music, consent and kindness.
Others happen in smaller, cosier spaces: around a table, over food, through conversation and shared experiences.
The Rainbow Ravers
I am the founder of London Rainbow Ravers, a community of queer and ethical non-monogamous ravers. We go to raves together, we create small bubbles of queer and ENM energy and we look after each other.
We are now more than 400 people in our closed WhatsApp community – and you are welcome to join us!
Poker SLVTS
I am the co-founder and former leader of Poker SLVTS, a community of queer and ethically non-monogamous poker players.
The group has been dormant for a while since I stepped down from running it, but as of October 2026, it’s coming back to life, with one poker night every month!
Whether you’re a seasoned poker player or a complete beginner, you’re more than welcome to join us. Come for the poker, stay for the people!